28 July 2009

Overcoming Is a Lifestyle, Not a Temporary Survival Tool


Contrary to popular belief, overcoming is not a reaction or response to life’s challenging circumstances. Instead, overcoming is a constant, a full-life approach, a way of being.

As an overcomer you embody the surety that no matter what unfolds in life you are fully-equipped to move through any circumstance and come out stronger on the other side. Regardless of what you may temporarily feel in any moment, you bring a certainty of calm, knowing there is high purpose in every experience. And this opens the gates of all possibility. You’ll be amazed at what creative solutions present themselves when you know the process of life is to show how grand you really are.

It is not my intent to portray this approach as easy, but it certainly feels better than being overwhelmed and worried that things won’t work out. You have not lived this long to have things fall apart now. You are divinely guided and supported in ways you cannot imagine. Embrace the lifestyle of a true overcomer and live free.


I am so honored to share my story in Overcomers, Inc.

15 July 2009

The Unspoken Acknowledgement


The other day as I walked on my favorite seaside cliff (without a hat), a woman and her husband crossed the street and stepped up onto the walking path about 8 feet in front of me. As she saw me, in bold and proud fashion, she ceremoniously pulled off her hat to show me her near-bald head. When our eyes met, we both smiled, she donned her hat again, and we went on our respective ways. I laughed out loud with pure joy.

I got it. We communicated without words, which would have only ruined the moment. Her sentiment was clearer than words because she was was connecting from her heart. And I responded from my heart. We acknowledged each other, honored each other; all without words.

It planted a seed of thought: how much doesn't ever need to be spoken with words? Maybe we would better serve ourselves and others by connecting and supporting from the heart without words. Heart language is pure and untainted communication. There is no mistaking the sentiment behind a genuine smile and kind sparkling eyes.

01 July 2009

One Aspect of a Full Life: Romance


Recently I met an extraordinary woman while attending a local weekly luncheon for female entrepreneurs.

Her name is Kimberly Mylls and she is the founder of two innovative and timely businesses. The first one grabbed my attention because the name is intriguing and captivating.

Author of the new book Boys Before Business: The Single Girls Guide to Having It All, Kim found a way to empower every woman who wants to have her dream man AND a great career.

Kim met the man of her dreams just 6 days after using one of the principles in the book. Nine months later she was married. Co-author Jennifer Wilkov followed the same practices and she is now in the relationship of her dreams.

I have no doubt Boys Before Business delivers based on the results of both creators and many devotees of the Boys Before Business system. Check it out.



"After reviewing just the first couple of lessons I realized that I am dating the wrong person. I now know my top 5 values that I am looking for in my relationship." Jody



"I don't have to settle for who wants to date me or who comes along I can decide who I want to be with. I was accepting the men that were coming into my life instead of choosing who I want to be with. I can't wait to learn more about manifesting my relationship." Deb



"What I want isn't shallow, it's just what I want. I was constantly worried about men being intimidated by me and I know that I need to find a man who is confident so I don't have to compromise. Where were you 10 years ago?" Karith



"I got a lot of value from just the first few steps. Going through the Dear God Letter process was eye opening." Meg



"I was so stuck in figuring out if I want to have a child first or a man first. Now I understand how important it is to get really clear about what I want and I now have the tools to do it." Heidi